But now that I had one in my house, I was going to put my Vitamix to better use. What do I mean by "better use"? Let me use my favorite smoothie from Jamba Juice to illustrate:
Green it and Mean it
But now that I had one in my house, I was going to put my Vitamix to better use. What do I mean by "better use"? Let me use my favorite smoothie from Jamba Juice to illustrate:
Guest Post: Expectations
If there's one thing I can do, it's gain weight.
I'm also quite adept at losing weight as it turns out.
According to my mom, I started to put on weight when I was 7, which I later learned coincided with the increase of fighting between my parents. I don't remember being particularly fat, per se, until I was in 5th grade. My gym teacher was up in front of class leading us in some 1991-era appropriate Jane Fonda-esque workout and she yelled "This is a great exercise if your thighs are starting to rub together...EMILY!"
A $49,286.25 Gift
Well, it's also a huge responsibility: I've been given this very expensive second chance, and it's up to me to take care of my neck as well as my overall health and wellness. You know, to not squander this gift.
Just thinking about this made me feel guilty about all the years I squandered a relatively healthy body. Do you ever go through that? Once I turned 18, nothing and no one was preventing me from leading a healthy life except for myself. Yet, it took many years for me to figure this out as well as to come up with plan. It took even longer to act on it.
I try not to entertain futile thoughts, such as "if only I had figured this out sooner..." or "if only I had acted on this sooner..." but every now and then they sneak their way in to my brain only to be answered with an impassioned "Do it now! Make it count now." (Every now and then a little brain cell knows exactly what to tell the rest of me.)
And that's all we can really ask of ourselves -- to learn the lesson and to evolve.
[EDIT: just received a new claim -- new total is $52,295.25]
Another "Progress, Not Perfection" post
We've all been there, right? The days when we want to do it the "easy way" (caveat: that means so many things to so many people, so I'll try not to offend and I apologize if I do) -- when we want to lose weight without exercising, when we want cheeseburgers to be healthy, and we want to be cured from ever having been unhealthy in the first place. If you haven't been there, count yourself amonth the lucky ones.
It's easier to buy a box of waffles than to make them from scratch. Don't even get me started on cinnamon rolls. It's easier to sit on the couch than to go to the gym and put in the work. Sometimes we're so focused on the results (mmmmhmmm waffles) that we start making up excuses about the behaviors ("just this once won't be a big deal"). And worse -- we start believing those excuses. Isn't that how this came to pass in the first place? And I'm not just talking about food or exercise, but isn't it easier to ignore our emotions than to actually deal with them?
There is hope.
The more we practice and familiarize ourself with the "hard way" it no longer becomes hard. It become a habit. It just becomes that thing we do. It becomes natural. The behaviors become a lifestyle. The behaviors become who we are.
We arrive at a place where we what we do matches what we want for ourselves and our lives. Our behaviors show the world how we feel about ourselves. There's no more struggle or strain.
We learn to be at ease with ourselves when we do right by our body, our mind, our spirit.
It was only hard because we had to learn how to how to honor ourselves after years of doing everything but.
Déjà vu, All Over Again
Resolutionaries
I posted the above on New Year's day. I saw people posting on Twitter and Facebook their disdain for "Resolutionaries" -- people that join gyms at the beginning of the year and take up time/space on the machines and in classes. Ever think that you were once that person? It might not have been a new year's resolution, but someone might've looked at you and wondered what the cat dragged in. Someone might have considered YOU to be the one out of place and not belonging in the gym.
But you're not a scared neophyte anymore, are you? You know how to use the machines. You let people "work in," you wipe down your equipment, you figure out how to make space in a crowded class for one more person. You've realized that we're in this together--that when one person succeeds, we all benefit.
I just want to take this moment to remind my readers of The New Rules and Rule No. 1 (no, it's not "No one talks about fight club): leave no one behind. If someone works up the courage to make it to the gym, or to ask you how you've achieved success, don't you feel like it should be your duty to help them? Even if it's just 5 minutes of your time, I feel you should honor the trust that they've placed in you as someone they feel they can learn from or be inspired by.
Dad had to come to the epiphany in his own time and in his own way. But now that he's there, I'm so proud to support him on his quest to be a healthy role model for his whole family, on his journey towards living a long life, and on the healing path for his body.
Growing up, I always heard from Dad's coworkers that he's always saying how proud he is of his kids. I'm glad that now I get to return the favor and say how proud I am of him.
Keep up the good work, Daddoo :)
#GoTheDist 2013 Theme
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To a degree we're all trying to rebuild -- we're trying to change the habits that didn't do us any favors, we're trying to recover from injuries, we're trying to be better today than we were yesterday. And we all have the technology at our fingertips. We have the knowledge and support that will make the changes possible.
I would love how to hear how you interpret this theme for yourself....
It also reminds me of my family motto -- which i'd love to share with you all: